Hearing loss becomes more common with age. Statistics show that among adults aged 20-69, the greatest amount of hearing loss occurs in the 60 to 69 age range.
Most cases of age-related hearing loss come on gradually. In fact, a family member often notices a person’s hearing struggles before they do.
If you’ve noticed that a parent seems to regularly mishear parts of phone conversations or that they struggle to pick up what’s being said when out to eat at Mayflower Restaurant, you may be wondering what to do next.
Let’s go over a few tips for having a conversation with a loved one about getting hearing aids.
Choose the Right Moment
Bringing up a loved one’s hearing loss is a delicate subject that brings up a feeling of defensiveness or embarrassment. It’s important to be mindful of when you decide to bring the subject up. Choose a time when you are both relaxed and can have some privacy. Make sure that there are no distracting background noises or a chance of being interrupted by others.
Be Open and Direct
Even though it can be an awkward topic, it’s important that you be open and direct in your concerns. Start by saying that you would like to talk about their hearing and use specific examples of symptoms you’ve noticed. They may have to turn the TV up really loud whenever you watch something together, or they often ask you and others to repeat what you’ve just said.
You can also talk about the impact it might be having on their lives. For example, “I noticed you seemed kind of distant or isolated at the last family reunion, and I wonder if your hearing had something to do with it?”
Listen To Their Concerns
It’s important that your loved one feels heard during this conversation. If they respond with resistance or deny having a problem, try to understand where they are coming from. Acknowledging their hearing loss may bring up anxiety about getting older or losing their independence. Also, if the conversation gets too intense, consider taking a break and continuing it at another time.
Offer To Help Them in Their Hearing Journey
Part of the reason your loved one may be reluctant to get hearing aids is they are overwhelmed with where to start. Offer to help them by doing research on hearing specialists in your area and help them schedule an appointment for a hearing test. If possible, offer to take them to their appointments.
To learn more about how to talk to your loved ones about hearing aids or to schedule an appointment, contact Georgia Hearing Center at ENT of Athens today.